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MilSpouse (first) Friday Fill-In #68

Loving is not just looking at each other, it’s looking in the same direction.
~Antoine de Saint-Exupéry, Wind, Sand, and Stars, 1939

(please feel free to use this!)

I love learning more about my fellow MilSpouse bloggers. So I created a weekly meme, which has now morphed into a monthly meme. This will happen on the first Friday of every month. To do this, I’ll post a list of questions the day before (on Thursday so you can have your blog ready on Friday). Come back here on Friday (like today!) and enter your blog post into Mr. Linky below so others know who else participated and we can all visit other blogs. Please leave a comment too! And please feel free to use the button above!

1. What is your favorite winter memory?  
My favorite winter memory is driving our three-wheeler around with my brother riding on the saucer behind it (attached with a rope, of course). He’d try to stay on and I’d whip around the yard and try to fling him off. Yes, I was driving it when I was seven.

2. What is your current favorite TV show?
Big Bang Theory! I just recently discovered this awesome show and now am trying to catch up on it!

3. What was your favorite thing that happened in January?
My favorite thing was finally getting a breakthrough in my physical therapy literally overnight. I can now move my shoulder INCHES more!

4. What is the best sound in the world to you?
My favorite sound is the purring of kittens as they sleep on me!

5. What is the biggest lesson you have learned as a MilSpouse (or significant other)?
The biggest thing I’ve learned–and am still learning–is to go with the flow more. It still bugs me when things we plan change or re-change or re-re-change last minute… but it doesn’t drive me up the wall anymore!

Please don’t forget to add your blog link to Mr. Linky below by clicking on it. But also if you are not participating in MilSpouse Friday Fill-In this week, please do not put your link on there… I will remove it. It is unfair to others who do participate.

MilSpouse (first) Friday Fill-In #68: Questions for Tomorrow

Life is really simple, but we insist on making it complicated. 
~Confucius

(please feel free to use this!)

I love learning more about my fellow MilSpouse bloggers! Here’s the skinny for newcomers about MilSpouse Friday Fill-ins (and when I say MilSpouse, I mean significant others, too!):

The first Friday of each month will be MilSpouse (First) Friday Fill-In and I’ll post a list of questions on Thursday (so you can have your blog ready on Friday). Come back here on Friday and enter your blog post into Mr. Linky so others know who else participated and we can all visit other blogs.  And please feel free to use the button above!

For those who have been following MFF for a while, you’ll notice that this has changed a bit. I am now just doing this on the first Friday of each month. It just became way too much for me to do every week and I felt like it was taking over my blog… and that is not what this blog is about. However, I LOVE my MFF and I had many, many people say they didn’t want to see it go. So now it is the MilSpouse (First) Friday Fill-In.

  1. What is your favorite winter memory?
  2. What is your current favorite TV show?
  3. What was your favorite thing that happened in January?
  4. What is the best sound in the world to you?
  5. What is the biggest lesson you have learned as a MilSpouse (or significant other)?
Can’t wait to see what everyone comes up with tomorrow!

Scentsy Winner!

So back in early December, I wrote this post about hosting a Scentsy party and said if anyone saw my post and bought from the party, I’d put them in a drawing to win free Scentsy stuff (coming from me, not the consultant or Scentsy)…

Well, the basket party has finally closed and according to Random.org, the winner is….. Allison from Glimpses of the Military Life! Allison has started her own business and has respectfully declined the winnings so the next Random.org winner is ArmyGirlNay from The Albrecht Squad!

Allison, ArmyGirlNay since my party did so well, I’m giving you the choice of one of the following (all worth $25):

  1. A mid-size warmer of your choice
  2. A plug-in warmer of your choice and one bar of your choice
  3. One brick  of your choice plus one bar of your choice
  4. Five bars of your choice

Thank you to those who signed up!

Please get back to me within 48 hours or I will have to choose another winner (I’ll also be tweeting you and contacting you on your blog).

And the job came back, the very next day…

Everything happens for a reason.
~My mom 

If you remember, I had another opportunity last April and was selected as one of the most highly qualified. I didn’t get the job due to someone taking it in a lateral transfer. But I had met the supervisor while I was volunteering at the airport helping military families coming home after being displaced by the tsunami. We seemed to click well enough. He’s been getting my resume from several different people he and I both know, including me sending it to him when I came to the area almost two years ago.

Then in November, right after I was laid off, a community relations job opened up in the Navy too, with the same supervisor. It was perfect for me. Like it was written for me. So I applied. And waited because I felt this was exactly what was meant to happen. The supervisor seemed eager to know I was applying.

But I didn’t get it. Heck, my resume didn’t even make it to the supervisor. I wasn’t sure why, but I figured I just hadn’t figured out the new system the Navy uses to screen resumes (USAjobs). I had CHART down but the new system might have been looking for something different.

So I agreed to do the three month active duty Navy thing that I’m doing right now.

Today, my CAPT walked in and looked at me and said, “You need to call XX because I just heard from the admiral this morning that that position opened back up again.” <side note: the CAPT knew about the job because if I had got it, I couldn’t have done the three months active duty for him>

So I called the (hopefully future) supervisor and he said he was glad to hear from me. He told me the person they had hired had quit three days before she even started the job. So he said the job was open again and said he didn’t see my resume the first time around. I told him I did apply but hadn’t made it through the automatic computer screener.

He then told me that he has no idea why it didn’t make it through except that maybe the other people had more eligibilities. I told him I had the VRA but that my military spouse preference had expired in May. He said he was going to be opening the position wider but that he was limited in what he could open it to due to it being a term position. He then said that he doesn’t know of anyone else who has the resume I do for this position. He offered to meet with me and let me ask him any questions I might have. We have to do it soon because once the position opens, he can’t really talk to or help any candidates or potential candidates. So we have a meeting in a few weeks to chat. I’m definitely looking forward to it.

I do have a job interview on Friday. It’s a great job and may just be local (instead of Seattle) but I’m not sure. Their website says they have offices in Portland and Seattle, but the CAPT (yup, same one as above) told me about the position and seemed to think they had an office locally. That would be AWESOME.  This job pays decent money and is more sales and member relations. While I can certainly do sales and am good at it, I’m more interested in the member relations part. I’m excited to hear more about this position.

When it comes down to it, I just want to work for a company that is solid, dependable (read: won’t lay me off after just a few weeks so they can rent a building in another state) and one that appreciates me for my skills and one I can wholly get behind and enjoy coming into work each day.

I still have more than two months left of active duty but it’s getting to the point where I need to start getting job interviews if I’m to have a job by the time April 1st rolls around and I’m no longer on active duty. It takes a while to go through interviews, then second interviews and then the offer. I still have time, but in another three weeks or so, if I don’t have progress, I’ll start panicking a little bit!

Computers Are Taking Over!

Technological progress has merely provided us with more efficient means for going backwards. 
~Aldous Huxley

So today I was out doing errands and at one register, my total ended up being $6.72. I handed the cashier a $20 bill, two pennies and four nickles (I was cleaning out my change purse!). She counted the change and then counted it a second time and then looked at me and said, “the change was 76 cents.” I paused for a second and then said (very nicely), “Yeah, I know… this way I’ll get two quarters back.”  She looked at me skeptically and then typed it into her computer and then just handed me my change back.  I shudder to think how much I would have confused her if I would have given her $22.22, expecting $15.50 back. *sigh* I learned to count change properly–including counting the change back to someone starting with the price of the purchase and going up to the amount given to me–when I was eight. EIGHT!

I sure hope that our future children aren’t allowed to use calculators in school until they learn how to do the calculations behind the math themselves. My mom didn’t let us type any papers on the computer (we didn’t get one until 6th grade anyway) until we learned how to type properly…  as in “asdf jkl;” typing. I plan to do the same thing with our kids.

Oh how much I appreciate the things my parents made us do. Sometimes I thought they were too “old-fashioned” but I am so appreciative of it now.

 

 

P.S.
Thanks for the comments on MilSpouse Friday Fill-In. I think I’m just going to do it on the first Friday of the month (thus making it MilSpouse FIRST Friday Fill-In). This will give me some more time to write on my blog. It seems as though every time I have a post to write, it’s either on Thursdays or Fridays when I have to get the MFF posts ready. However, I don’t want to abandon MFF completely, so I think this is a good compromise.

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